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There was an excellent well thought out, extremely observant blog post by Loveawake at their blog, regarding the lack of feminine behaviour in American women. We wanted to comment on it, as we haven’t delved far enough into this dark abyss for our liking. To be all honest, we still had hope that we were wrong. We weren’t. My experience in Dating North American women is the same, to be honest, other than a few foreigners i’ve slept with, i haven’t travelled outside of north america. The foreigners of course, are much, much more open, fun, flirtatious, sexual, and above all display mass amounts of feminine traits. Here is the part of Loveawake’s post that struck a deep chord with me:
I’ve dated too many American girls like the one I’m describing to you, so many “coworkers” who wanted to stay professional. (The only time that mask comes off is when I penetrate her—then she adopts a completely different persona that is best described as porn satire.) One reason I have tolerated this behavior recently is I was only interacting with them for a short time until getting to sex. And most of that time was under the influence. Prolonging the process with long-form dating reminded me of how challenging it is to accept this masculinity and lack of warmth, especially when you’ve discovered that it’s not real, that women are really not like this. Believe me when I say I’m not angry, bitter, or sad—I’m only disappointed that the women of my birth country have been destroyed through the work of intellectual man-haters. Or is it the fault of suits in power who go along with the anti-man nonsense to lock up the female vote? All I know is that winning the lottery is only marginally harder than finding a woman who can serve her man like in the not-so-distant past.
The dating a secret co-worker phenomenon was something i thought onlyi was experiencing – and i got it mixed up with the fact that yes i have met co-workers and dated them. But it was when i started noticing this behaviour outside of the work place. The constant need to look proper, professional, never let her guard down, be as “cut throat” as Roosh put it, at all times. Being too flirty, too into a guy, a girl loses what she conceives of as her power. What does she think is gonna happen if she starts acting like a girl? I bang a girl one way or the other, but if a girl lets her gaurd down, we can both enjoy the ride a lot more, and i am much more willing to continue the relationship past the bedroom. The girl that does not open up, loosens up, and acts feminine, gets banged, and then never called again.
I also like to point out that i am not bitter as well, it is sad, but i’m not saddened by it, as my readers know, i am an expert at reality, and that is where i dwell. I feel sad for bursting little beta’s fantasy, because waking up to reality is never easy. For example, i dated an italian girl fresh from Milan during the summer, cute, sexy little thing – she had no problem grabbing my arm when we walked, letting me touch her with out feeling uncomfortable, in fact she was much more comfortable when i was touching her than when i wasn’t. North American girls find this offensive, and either needy or pervish. You touch them three times with casual kino’s, but that fourth or fifth time might be too much. North American girls are so hypersensitive to this, and yes they are counting, that they cannot judge a man properly. They are so stuck on trying to find reasons not to date a man, that you can wonder what they’re doing out with you in the first place. And i do wonder. I feel a little bad for the Italian girl, because i just wasn’t used to that kind of attention and behaviour… had i been ready for it, her stay here would have been even better. I was too used to avoiding the mine field of traits and qualities a so-called girl is not looking for.
So here is what i am going to do, and i want all the soldiers out there to do this too, other wise we’ll just sink further into the abyss of men acting like women and women acting like men. Demand feminine behaviour. If you aren’t seeing it in a date, point it out. I don’t care if it makes it awkward or it ruins a bang. Tell her, “look, i really like feminine girls, i’m not sure this is going to work out, you’re too self conscious about what’s going on here. I think i’m gonna leave, nice meeting you.” – of course, this is a fantastic way to get her to start qualifying herself to you, not to mention actually acting feminine. However she could say nothing, she could also spaz out. Either way you are weeding out the crazies.
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